Introduction
Once, a man approached Shri Shankar Maharaj with a request. He was concerned about his daughter's marriage, which was not progressing despite his best efforts. The man asked the Maharaj for help and guidance. Instead of giving him a direct answer, Shri Shankar Maharaj asked him, "Do you think I am an astrologer?" The man responded negatively, but he was still eager for a solution.
The Request and the Response
Shri Shankar Maharaj then asked one of his disciples to bring the gatha of Sant Tukaram. The Maharaj flipped through the gatha and stopped at a devotional song (abhanga) that was relevant to the man's situation. The devotee was not satisfied and insisted that the Maharaj bless him, so that his daughter's marriage could be fixed. Eventually, Shri Shankar Maharaj replied, "Your daughter's marriage will be fixed when I will die."
The Realization
The man was stunned by the response. "How can you say such a thing?" he exclaimed. "How can my daughter's marriage depend on your death?" At this moment, one of the disciples explained that what the Maharaj meant was that the man's ego, represented by the "I" that he was constantly speaking of, needed to die before the marriage could happen. It was his attachment to his own efforts and pride that was standing in the way of the marriage being fixed.
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